Nicholas IngateTo need or not to needDo I need my lover to do x and y or be this and that, or can we survive not needing anything from each other?4 min read·Aug 11, 2021----
Nicholas IngateAttachment: Unwilling to let goI’ve observed that the cause of my frustrations come from attachment. What am I unwilling to let go?6 min read·May 2, 2021----
Nicholas IngateEnough with not being enoughDoes carrying around the heaviness of not feeling good enough have some upside?7 min read·Feb 25, 2020----
Nicholas IngateI went on a date with a manYou didn’t misread the title and no, I don’t mean a man date.11 min read·Dec 22, 2019--3--3
Nicholas IngateMy Daughter My TeacherAs I approach my daughter’s fourth birthday, I’ve found an opportunity for reflection and, honestly, the first few years sadden me8 min read·Oct 30, 2019--1--1
Nicholas IngateWhy I chose to take time off during my prime “earning years”The following is a brief account of things I’ve been questioning: where I’ve been recently, where I’m at now, where I’d like to go, as well…6 min read·Sep 30, 2019--5--5